If you have decided to read this article, you would probably be wondering if its possible to fall in love again or if its even a real thing. Everyone, for at least once in our life would have seen people who fell in love again, on the internet or in real life. And for the fact, we can confirm that its possible to fall in love again.

We all know our mind can capture the facts, the reality, the logical reason behind everything, but to accept it, our heart has to comply. This is where the contradiction and the confusion happens. And if you are here reading this, you probably want a proper explanation to hit in the right place, a good way to persuade your heart, to let it move on, to let it believe and let it find peace with the situation.

Love – A powerful force

Love is not just a feeling or an emotion, it’s a force. It’s a very powerful force like anger, overwhelm, anxiety all combined together, its magnetic and it makes magic. Yes, magic it is, its not a real thing, it’s a fantasy that rules us.

The adrenaline rush while being in love makes you take impulsive decisions, makes a person go crazy, unlock their ultimate dramatic emotions they never even knew they had in them and this is what makes us say, Love is blind.

You may have never cried in your life, you may have always been a self-controlled person, you may have seen so many failures in your life that ripped you of every thing you have ever worked for, you may have survived without food for days, but all of these are just dust in sunray when compared to the actual sunray itself, Love.

You cry, you can’t control yourself, you are all over the place, you can survive without sleep, food, anything but the person you love. That’s what love does to us. We can’t explain love in a single page but for the fact, we know it makes us crazy.

The right person : Do they exist?

Once you have felt love, once you have felt the rush, you can never come out of it, you can never choose to not feel it again. We humans may have felt so many different emotions and disorders, but love is something else. Once you discover it, your whole life changes and the way you think changes, everything else becomes unimportant.

This is what makes us crazy about the person. We look at them like a fantasy, whatever they do is miracle, everything around us becomes magical. And you think you found the right person. Until you didn’t.

Days pass, and they are not the same anymore; you are not the same anymore. That’s when you really question your love. You see the changes, you decide to work on it and never give up. Never giving up is the love.

The right person – is not a myth, but you have to accept whoever you thought was the one may not be the right person. They could be near, your friend, someone you never expected; there may be so many right persons but only some fit in your puzzle.

Love is a storm, a hurricane. You never know until it has swept you away.

Can love disappear?

We never know how to love correctly. There is no rule-book, there is no step-by-step guide to keep the love alive. We make mistakes, we correct them.

Love can fade. When you realize the spark is lost, when the other person starts behaving uninterested, when you find someone treats you better than them, when you realize its not going anywhere, when you know you both don’t fit together like before. You think the love is gone. But its never gone, it might be blurred under the hurt, the pain that you decide to hide.

Some people may have gone through worst breakups, from the truest love they ever had, or a toxic relationship they were once struck in. Both the situations may be different but it creates a fear of not being able to love anyone again and not being able to let anyone love them again.

Moving on – A crime?

Some people choose to stop moving on and live the rest of their lives loving only one or hating themselves for falling hard.

“I don’t think love is once in a lifetime. I think love is always a possibility.”

― Lindsay Detwiler, Then Comes Love

Remember there are billions of people out there, a million reasons to fall in love and a million chances to live life the way you dream. Don’t try to live it off with the wrong person and don’t try to stop your heart from falling again.

Know that the one that you should love unconditionally is yourself and then give all of your love to the one you chose to fall for. Also you deserve someone who can love you the way they love themselves. You don’t have to complete each other, you don’t have to give your life for them, you don’t have to survive only with their memories. Its okay to fall in love again. Its okay to move on. We are just here to fall in love and find someone with whom you can share your life with.

Love arrives exactly when love is supposed to, and love leaves exactly when love must. When love arrives, say, “Welcome. Make yourself comfortable.” If love leaves, ask her to leave the door open behind her.

-Sarah Kay

Keep your heads high, hearts open and minds clear and the right love, your kind of love will eventually find you. It’s okay to move on, it’s okay to let yourself love again.